Fellas, this ever happen to you continuously only after a few weeks of dating?
Her: You are treating me like I’m your girlfriend, it confuses me. We are acting like there is a title so we should just make it official.
Me: Wait, so because I am actually courting you and dating you and taking you out and being exclusive that is a problem? That confuses you? Hell, I practice like I play, so of course, I am treating you like I am in a relationship with you because that is what I want to happen. However, we still need to take the time to get to know each other.
Me: Ok well let me scale it back.
Her: I need more time with you. It hasn’t been but like a month.
Me: I give you all of my free time though and I make time when there really isn’t much.
Her: I am tired of you playing games, we need to be a couple.
Me: Nah, as a matter of fact, you are being annoyed and not respecting or listening to me. I refuse to rush into anything again, if you can’t respect that then move on.
Me: This isn’t going to work. I need to end this. If we continue I will only grow to dislike you.
Her: See you just want to go be a hoe
Me: No, I am drained, you took all of my energy. I am tired and I am wasting your time. Go find someone who is ready to be with you after a few weeks. Don’t waste your time with me anymore. Good luck.
Then, of course, I no longer text or contact the person. Smh, a vicious cycle.
It’s not always the women though, I was once on the other end of this situation and tried to make someone be in a relationship before they weren’t quite ready…but the other 98% of the time it has been them rushing it lol.
So yeah, this is the cycle, I hate it with a passion.