Looks up the definition of the word obsessed….*
preoccupy or fill the mind of (someone) continually, intrusively, and to a troubling extent.“he was obsessed with the theme of death”
synonyms: preoccupy, be uppermost in someone’s mind, prey on someone’s mind, prey on, possess, haunt, consume, plague, torment, hound, bedevil, beset, take control of, control, take over, have a hold on, rule, eat up, have a grip on, grip More
(of a person) be preoccupied with or constantly worrying about something.“her husband, who is obsessing about the wrong she has done him”
Nah, I think I am going to pass on that one. Just love me, be honest, communicate, be able to hold yourself accountable, practice reciprocity and do the best you can and I can work with you lol.