Rebound

Remember this scene from the tv show A Different World? In this scene, the main character Whitley Gilbert leaves her fiance, Byron Douglas at the altar for her ex Dwayne Wayne. I know quite a people say that it is one of their favorite scenes in TV history. A sign of true and real love. …

Holiday excuses

Well, it's that time of the year again, the Holiday season. November, December, and January (the hell with Halloween). Thanksgiving, followed by Christmas, followed by New Years, what a time. To the few of you that know me well, you know that I am not a holiday person at all. My Mother can't stand it …

Family Time

  Families can be dysfunctional as hell. So in honor of the holiday season, I would like to take the time to acknowledge our families. More specifically, southern black families. Why? Well, I am black and those are the only types of families that I interacted with. Despite the dysfunction and beef, normally relatives tend …

Cry me a river

I'm so tired of people posting statuses, blogs, and videos complaining about who people date or their preferences. Yes, I have been guilty of this before also, like when I wrote this post Too short ... however, in my defense, I'm actually tall and this post wasn't for me lol. I used to think that maybe these …

Be paranoid

Yesterday I wrote a post specifically addressing men and how they should conduct themselves or interact with women titled, No hugs.  I guess the "inspiration" of this post was brought about by women on Twitter bringing up instances of them being sexually assaulted. As I mentioned yesterday, that topic is always a touchy one to bring …

No hugs 

I got on Twitter because I was bored and don't have to work tomorrow. What I saw as I scrolled my timeline was actually pretty messed up. Women were discussing their sexual assault experiences, more specifically sexual assault at twitter meetups/events. Call me crazy but I honestly believe the majority of all women have been …